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Greetings fellow Youtovers. There we go. Turn that down. There we go. Just right. Awesome. So right now I'm doing a load of laundry. It's important to make sure you're close or clean and that you smell fresh for whatever opportunity comes your way. Now come on and answer with another video and I happen to have a black and mild wood tip jet or not jazz but wine excuse me. This is a black and mild wine wood-tipped cigar from Milton's Black and Mild Wine Wood-Tip cigar YouTube. That's where it's at, man. So while I was out and about making my rounds and doing a couple of basic errands, I went to Ace Hardware to get some more black paint for Oh yeah. I went to Ace Hardware to get some more black paint for finishing my Bachelor Wands here. And, uh… Right into a cute girl by the name of Betsy Bauer. And here's her business card. Check out Betsy Bauer and she does sculpting on Instagram. That's your kind of thing. be sure to give her a shout and check out on Instagram. So a shout out to Betsy, thank you for, you know, chit-chatting. Now Betsy comes out to me and she goes, you got the King Cobra king, Kohler, and I said, well, yes I am. She goes, my friend is just the hugest fan of your videos. Can I get a selfie? And I'm like, sure, not a problem. Like I didn't mean to like, being such a rush when I was chit-chat and worth her, but you know, other stuff to do. But it was still nonetheless nice talking to her and she seemed very happy. So, hell yeah. and she's inspiring to do more of their life. Now that's something you hear a lot of people say, is they try to get better or they inspire to do more of their life. Now the thing I'm going to say is, what's stopping you? Also I'll give a shout out to Richard Schofter. Keep your head up bud and all life sucks but it'll get better as time goes on. There are times when we try to better ourselves and no matter what we do, it always bites us in the ass. There are times when we try to better ourselves as people and for whatever ungodly reason life prevents us or tries to anyway. Now and the most basic of examples what I mean by this is life likes to test people. Let's say you're going to quit smoking, right? That's when life will test you, give you the worst day of your life, to the point where you want a cigarette. You're saying you're going to work on your temper. Okay. That's when life will do things to throw things in your pathway that will piss you off and test your so-called word, if you will. Now, personal growth doesn't happen overnight. I'm a personal witness to that myself. doesn't happen overnight, I'm a personal witness to that myself. I will acknowledge firsthand that I have a temper and I'm trying to work on it and you know that's when life likes to test people, you know. I said there's a say I want to work on my temper. Okay, that's when life says, well, you know. The last couple of months have been, the last couple of months have been, the last couple of months have been, the last couple of months have been a testament to what I am saying. For me personally, the last couple of months, I've had my moments that were stress-inducing and and anger-causing. And a lot of it comes from being frustrated with my own circumstances plus the stupidity in our society. It just makes my head hurt and it is what it is. But somehow, I wake up and I say to myself, tomorrow is a new day. And I know that once I learn to control my temper, a lot better than I have been doing, life will get somewhat easier. And these are just personal goals I have to have more confidence in myself and to work on my temper. Now the question is, what are your personal goals? Now in the case of Bessie, show that card off again, give her a shout and a look on Instagram. She does some pretty cool stuff with the sculpting. She told me she was inspiring to do more, which is awesome. Now, the two P's in life. and patience. And which comes first, the chicken or the egg, which comes first, consistency or patience? Persistency and patience is much like the yin and the yang effect of life, if you will. You must learn to be persistent with your goals, otherwise they will never be met. But you also must have the patience and yourself for that persistency to work. So you can't have perseverance without patience and you can't have patience without perseverance. That's just how it is. And believe me, everybody in life will go through, everybody goes through that point in life where they just want to give up. They can't take it. That's when you have to reach deep down inside yourself and find the strength from within to reach out and only to reach out and find that strength and within to reach out and not only to reach out and find that strength and within But look around you and realize your full potential I'll be the first to say it when it comes to women I have high standards But I can't have high standards in women without having high standards in myself. I Can't expect to have a banging girlfriend if or a girlfriend in general if I have a nasty temper. Let's just see what it is Now once I've learned to control my temper a lot better than it has been lately, I mean to be fair if you would have met me eight months ago, you know I'm a different person. But… If I want to go friendly I have to have more confidence in myself and I also have to work on my temper and make just a little bit more money. Now here's the thing, when you have more confidence in yourself and you work on personal weaknesses, maybe you're like me, you have a temper, you're learning to control it or maybe, you know, whatever your personal goals are, you can't achieve them if you put your mind to it. Within reason. Now I know it can be difficult when the odds are stacked against you and you feel like you can't win sometimes. You feel like no matter how hard you try it's not good enough. Been there, done that, birth to T-shirt. birth to a t-shirt. going back to what I said earlier, I'll learn to control my, if I'm learning to control my temper for instance, there's times when I go for like weeks without losing my temper and then something stupid will happen, and I'll flip out about it for like maybe a minute, I'll cuss and then I'll get over it. So that it feels like that no matter how hard I'm trying, I still occasionally lose my temper. That makes me human, I guess, but my point being is that if you have at least a couple people that care about you, and believe me, I know that there are some days we try our hardest, it doesn't feel good enough. We might feel like nobody cares, but if you have at impact on the life around you. Now for the longest time I took rejection from the opposite of sex very personally. And to be quite fair, it doesn't matter what the rejection is over. When humans, when humans get rejected, they feel incompetent. They feel less than good enough. You know what I'm saying? Every human hates getting rejected, whether it be on the dating scene, maybe you're applying for an apartment, maybe you're applying for a housing loan or a job and you get turned down, maybe you go to the grocery store and your car gets declined, okay, rejection is unfortunately a part of life. And here's the thing of the chickstick confidence and when you get rejected by the opposite of the sex, it's hard to have confidence. You feel like you're not good enough. You feel like okay you know what is it about mean blah blah blah. And it's very easy okay it is very easy to get wrapped up in that self-loathing and that self-hate. So it's a vicious cycle that feeds itself. When you get rejected by women and you feel like shit because of it, you have less confidence in yourself. And then the less confidence reflects. So even if you appear confident on the outside, on the inside, a lot of women are going to sense that and be like, yeah, no thank you, I don't want any part of this. So how did I get over not taking, like how did I get over taking rejection personally? More confidence, plenty of simple, realizing that, okay, when you have 7,303 subscribers on YouTube, that's something to be proud, realizing that, okay, when you have 7,303 subscribers on YouTube, that's something to be proud of. You know what I'm saying? When you got hot-ass chicks who stopped to take a selfie with you because their friends like the biggest Gothic King Cobra fan or whatever, you know what I'm saying. It makes me realize that women who eject me are stupid. Not intellectually stupid. I mean, overall just, you know. I'm not talking intellectually stupid, I'm talking just stupid in general. I can be a nice guy, but I can also be as mean as I am nice. And usually the nicest people are the scariest to piss off I'm just saying that how many women out there crave a man with muscles good looks and some popularity and what have you you know? How many women would crave to be in the arms of a sexy bad boy who plays guitar? That being said, I have the satisfaction of knowing that I have the patient's and perseverance to wait. When it comes to dating, you should be in a rush. Good things take time to develop. And quite often if you rush into things like dating, nine times all the time, you're going to overthink things and you're going to make your life 10 times more complicated than it needs to be. So it's learning to multitask and manage your time more wisely. You notice, you notice that people are in a rush. People are in such a rush to go places anymore. People are in such a hurry and that's because they don't take time to manage their time. Now it is better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it. That is true for everything in life. And if you learn to plan accordingly and organize your life a bit better, realize some personal goals. When people say where do you see yourself in 10 years? Okay, don't think about 10 years from now. Think about now. Now for example, someone says, oh Mr. Gotha Kinko, where do you see yourself four years from now? My simplest answer is, living in my dream house How did you get to that goal you play the lottery keep making music or start writing novels? Either you become super rich Winning the lottery becoming a rock star or a well-published author. One of the three. See what I'm saying? I mean that's life, dude. Like, that is life in a simple nutshell. You know, you just got to be goal motivated. You know what I'm saying? Believe me, life is never easy for anyone. There's time and life will kick us in the pants repeatedly. And that's when you gotta find the strength within to get back up and keep on trucking. That's when you have to have the strength within. Life kicks you down, you get back up and you spit in life's face. And you say, is that the best you got life? I'm still standing. I'm still standing. I'm still standing. Now what's stopping you from achieving your personal goals? Only you. Don't let life, don't let life or anybody else stop you or say no, you're not good enough. Because that's bullshit. I had an awesome fan of some pipe tobacco so I really appreciate that. Y'all'll be getting three brand new pipe tobacco reviews coming up on YouTube. So stick around for their oneness. Y'all be getting three brand new pipe tobacco reviews coming up on YouTube So stick around for their awesiness And now that's… I got… This footy paint I need to finish my handles on my wands. I can start another batch. Now for years people have been telling me Josh, you need to start selling wands to your fans. You'd make a decent living doing it. And for years I kept in saying, oh I'm not good enough. Finally I just I had enough of it and I went for it. And I tried one batch just one batch just to see. It sold out like that. Second batch just quickly. And then the next three to four batches after that you know I know I'm batch number six or seven and yeah and that's what life's all about man you got you got to find your wand making so to speak metaphorically speaking you got to find something in life that you're good at and that you can do as a hobby or as a way to make money. Because life gets boring when you don't have a source of entertainment. Life gets boring when you don't have hobbies. Something, take your mind off, the stress of everyday life. Life only gets harder as we get older. something, take your mind off the stress of everyday life. Life only gets harder as we get older, it never gets easier, that is the God's honest truth, but that perseverance and that wine, wood-tipped cigar. Yeah. Milton's makes excellent pipe tobacco. If I'm getting a black and mild wine-flavored cigar, you gotta go with the wood tips. Case so much better. And believe me, I've been there done that. It feels like no matter how hard we try to better ourselves. It feels like no matter how hard we try to better ourselves. It feels like no matter how hard we try to better ourselves, YouTube. It feels no matter how hard we try to better ourselves, there's always going to be something preventing that from happening. And in that, in that in that regards Facebook life is like a video game in that aspect you know if at first you don't succeed try again. Now maybe if you're trying to better yourself and it's not working, maybe you're having a hard time with, where you think your strategy, try something different, approach the task at hand with a different approach, and see, just see what happens. You might actually get something out of it you never know. get something out of it you never know. And the important thing in life to remember is it doesn't matter what you're going through in life. Life can get better. But if you choose to make decisions in life that make your life difficult, then naturally your life is going to become difficult. You choose to make decisions in your life that will improve your life and make your life easier, then of course your life is going to get easier. It's just that simple. But here's the thing, YouTube. That first step begins with you. That first step begins with you. That first step begins with you. Jealousy makes people do some stupid shit. And if you're jealous of what that person has, stop for one second and think just for a moment. Why are you jealous of that person? And how do they get the thing you're jealous of them having? You know what I'm saying? And you look at how they do things and you'll see firsthand. You'll see firsthand how it's done. Now for example if you're sitting there going, okay, that guy's got a girlfriend, I don't. That makes you jealous. Just a hypothetical. You start asking yourself, okay. How did he get that chick? You look at what he has? Does he have a car? Does he have a job? Does he have his own apartment? You know what I'm saying? These are things you have to consider. Now here's the thing of it, a lot of people are jealous in my fame on YouTube so they pick on me. And instead of realizing that I've worked my Aspergers off on YouTube to get where I'm at today, I've busted my Aspergers making random videos on YouTube for 10 plus years before I started getting noticed. And that's exactly my point, the pressurvias and the patience. don't want something super expensive and you don't want to cut it or toast it to light it. Pick up one of these black and mild wine wood-tipped cigars and a single kind of shit about a buck in some odd sense, not too inexpensive. And the flavor is just exquisite. Only if you're old enough to smoke of course. If you're on your age then wait till you're old enough. I'll grab some water I'll be right back. Now case in points there are some people okay there are some people who start off with nothing you know I'm saying there are some people who start off with nothing you You know what I'm saying? There are some people who grow up with humble beginnings. And there are some people in life who have to bust their ass to get what they're at today. And all that hard work and preservation and dedication pays off. And then there are some people who haven't handed to them. Is it fair? No. By all means no, it's not fair. When there are people out there who struggle to better themselves and make an honest living for themselves, and they do everything they can to make it happen and life refuses to cut them a break. And then you got other people who don't struggle at all. And you think it's because don't struggle at all. And you're thinking, you think just because that person had their life handed to them, you think that they don't struggle? Oh yeah, trust and believe, everybody struggles. Everybody struggles in their own special way. And if you think your struggles suck, if you think your struggles suck, trust and believe, there's always somebody out there who has it way worse. Now I gave the fan a shout out on one of my Facebook live videos who sent a tobacco, but I'll do a separate reviews for all three of them on YouTube coming up, like I said. But hopefully this video gives you some inspiration. You know what I'm saying? It's interesting because as soon as as soon as I adapted a new method to the dating scene, started having started having a lot more confidence in myself and started working on my temper almost overnight the response from the opposite sex has been exceptionally awesome you know when you're better in yourself, when you're better in yourself, YouTube, when you're better in yourself, people can sense that. When you become a better person, people sense that. And when you better yourself, it feels good to know that you're doing something constructive with your life. Instead of doing something just destructive, you're doing something constructive. You see what I'm saying you too? There are some decisions that are inevitably destructive for our lives, yes. But things like having a nasty temper, things like not having enough confidence in one self, things like hanging out with the wrong crowd of people, and making shitty decisions in general. These are destructive decisions, but choosing not to make those destructive decisions as a constructive decision. The difference being you're actually using your life to better yourself. You know, life is just going to flash right before your eyes. And when you pass away and you look back upon your life, and I guarantee you, nine times out of ten, if you look back upon your life and you are a shitty person, if you are a shitty person in life, nine times out of ten, you might look back upon your life and go, fuck, I was a real asshole. I could have done things differently, but now it's not worth it. It's not. You know. And I'll be the first to a minute. I had suicide depression at one point. And what broke me of that depression was watching how Chester Bennington suicide affected the world around us. There were so many people grieving over the loss of an amazing musician and you take a look at all that grief and I guarantee you even if you're not as famous as Chester was or still is that grief is still going to be felt by at least one person that cares I don't care what you think or say it doesn't matter you know what I'm saying? It really does it. I don't care how bad you're struggling. because some of my younger fans are still in high school and they're still struggling with the social bullshit and what have you. I'm not going to say it gets easier or it gets better when you get out of high school because I'm not going to lie to you. It does get tougher when you get out of high school. I'm not saying that to scare people. I'm saying that to prepare you. You think that the assholes in high school matter? The answer is no, they don't. The people who are being jerks to you in high school, stuffing you in the locker, is bullying you in this and that. Trust and believe when you get out of high school, these assholes aren't going to matter. What's going to matter is your life and what you're doing with it. Now even though each high schooler's life is significantly different, there are a couple things that every high school student is going through. puberty, peer pressure, trying to figure out who they are and what they want to do with the rest of their lives. Those are the four things every teenager is going through at some point, puberty, peer pressure, figuring out who they are as people and figuring out what they want to do with the rest of their lives. And that being said, I'm not asking you to hang out with people you don't like on the weekends. I'm asking you to be somewhat understanding. Because we are just right around the corner with a brand new school year. This is a chance to better ourselves as people. This is a chance to make something as people. This is a chance to make something of ourselves. You know what I'm saying? A good education can get you places YouTube. You got to say no to hard drugs and get a good education. You know what I'm saying? I guarantee you do you do those two things. Get a good education, get yourself a high school diploma or equivalent, and say no to hard drugs. You say no to hard drugs, and you get your GED or high school diploma, you'll go places in life. You know what I'm saying? This is something I make this video because I want to help younger people especially relate to one another. You know, one person may be tossing a football and scoring touchdowns for their school. Another person, maybe just some total geek, drama nerd, computer type. It doesn't matter. They come from different social walks of life, different sides. But those four things I mentioned earlier is what is the four things that every teenager has in common. And let's repeat, what are they? Figuring out who you are as a person. Figuring out what you want to do with the rest of your life. puberty and peer pressure. Every teenager goes through those four things in the course of their high school existence. So why the fuck do they bully each other? Is that a dick measuring contest? Because let me ask all these jocks that like to bully nerds because they think it's funny. Are you intimidated by that nerds' penis size? If you're not, then why the fuck are you stuffing them in lockers? Because you realize that once you get out of high school, they're probably going to be your future boss. And when you have kids of your own and you're struggling to make a living, and you go up to your boss and you're like, hey look, I've been busting my ass here man and my my wife just got laid off blah blah blah blah blah, I was wondering if you could give me a raise. And your boss is going to look at you and be like, oh like the timer. I asked you to stop stuffing me in the lockers. Yeah, no. That's usually how it goes in life. That's usually how it goes in life. And here's the thing of it. This is just my advice, but I've seen a trend. And here's the thing of it. This is just my advice, but I've seen a trend with certain behaviors regarding mass shootings and shit. hashtag, fuck school shootings on the for real. Hash tag, fuck mass shootings. Okay, bullying the socially awkward kid okay I know it's a stereotype okay I do I know saying that is a cliche and a half but you never know right I mean I'm not saying I'm not telling the ladies to go fuck the guy I'm just saying don't treat him like shit you know what I'm saying saying, I'm not telling the ladies to go fuck the guy, I'm just saying. Don't treat him like shit, you know what I'm saying, like, come on. Granted, yes, I was a socially awkward kid in high school and I didn't do anything stupid. I persevered and pushed through it. I went from being bullied in school to becoming a YouTube celebrity. You see what I'm saying? Now I'm not saying every person who gets bullied is going to grow up and do amazing things with their life. That kind of thing doesn't just happen overnight. It starts with the perseverance, pushing through, and ignoring the bullies, and making your education happen for you. So when you get out of school, you can make something of yourself. See what I'm saying? Most of the assholes that bully you in school end up leading very unhappy lives. You know what I'm saying? And it's funny how life works because… Yeah, in high school and junior high I got rejected by chicks left and right. That shit sucks, dude. And now I got chicks that watch my videos religiously. It's funny how life works like that. Usually the chicks who reject you in high school and are completely snobbish about it. They end up in unhappy relationships. That's how life works. Unfortunately shitty people just attract shitty people, it is what it is. I mean you could be a nice person in general, but you know if you have those characteristics, it's gonna happen. Now if a chick says she hates you and she's not the kind of person to hate it means she really really really really likes you and she's not sure how to internalize it. You may not realize that when you're going through that experience but when you get a little bit older you'll look back on it and go son of a bitch. Oh. And here's thing of it. If you find somebody attractive, but you know what I'm saying? Don't deny you find them attractive. You're only going to lie to yourself. Now, if you can't have that person, at least admit to yourself that you find that person to be attractive. It'll be less stress on you when you're living life. You know what I'm saying? You can sit there and say that, oh, you don't find that chick attract, you're blah blah blah, but your face gets red when she walks by. like who you bullshitting, bud? You're trying to bullshit yourself because nobody else is buying it. Hmm, I want to bust out one of the tobacco that was graciously sent to me by a fan. This here is Kentucky Select. Is this the red flavor? It comes in a reseal bag. Oh my god! That just smells good! You open up that bag. Oh my god, that just smells good. You open up that bag and it's just unsmoked tobacco and it smells amazing. It's a bit drier than some of your flavored tobacco so it burns quicker. This is what they call a rolling tobacco or cheap pipe tobacco and… Hell yeah, this is about a pound's worth of tobacco this last year, didn't it? So I'm going to load a bowl up real quick of some of this here, pipe tobacco. I'm going to push that down. Give you my review on it. It's not like an inspirational video, but it's also a little pipe tobacco review. All right, now that we got my trusty church warden loaded up, church ward and load it up grabs you big lighter fire this bitch out You get a nice charlight going. And then after that first light you want Pack it down. It'll create a nice cake of ash And after your charlight spark it back up. There you go. Now when you're loading your tobacco pipe, you don't want to load it too tight. You want a nice… You want to pack your bowl firm, but not too firm. You want to have plenty of air when you're drawing on it The taste is consistent of cigarette tobacco, which has that taste. You know, that nice dry, harsh, regular flavored tobacco. Really good. Mmm. It smells like cigarette tobacco, too. This is a pipe tobacco that's considered a non-aromatic. It's got an excellent nicotine punch. This is a pipe tobacco that's considered a non-aromatic. It's got an excellent nicotine punch. A nice decent throat hits, really good flavor. Oh yeah, despite being a little bit harsh it is kind of smooth. It does go down with some pins and needles but not very much. So it's kind of rough and kind of smooth. This part tobacco is pretty good. I would definitely recommend it. Show that little go. Back at you with another video. Some harsh tobacco. Hell yeah. Thank you for watching and I'll catch you cool cobras later.