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So, here's something to think about. In my night video, I did dive a bit into relationships and shit. But here's something to think about. Why is the stereotype for relationships with this? Why is it you too? If the stereotype for relationships is you always have to fight or be polar opposite or disagree? Would it be easier to do you doing someone you have more than a person? Would we pull her opposite or disagree? Wouldn't it be easier doing someone you have more in common with? Well, let's say yes and no answer. I guess it depends on the person. He's thinking of it. Polar opposites can attract but they also don't have to. Exactly the same can but doesn't have to. It's really the same for both of those answers. Sure you can meet the girl of your dreams, has everything in common with you. Or you can meet the, you know, your polar opposites, and it just works in its own special way. It really depends on the circumstance and the people in the situation. and I don't understand it. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. That's really mysteries about it. But as I said before, a patient fisherman will always catch his fish on this a other fish in the sea You teach a man to fish. They'll catch fish for the rest of his life fish for the night He'll have fish for the night Now it's a metaphor What I mean by this this could be applied to the dating scene as well. You could teach a person, a person, two dates, you can date for them, be their wingman, so to speak, or you could teach them a couple tricks to it and they can do it themselves. You know what I'm saying? If you're a wingman for your, you're trying to help, you know, you know, You know what I'm saying? If you're a wing man for the person you're trying to help, you know, it may work for a night or it may work for the rest of their life. That depends on a lot of things. I don't wanna be too specific here, but that's true for the dating scene in general. You go fishing and you know, that's the third thing of it, being patient. I'm a hypocrite for saying it, but being patient, you know, is it taught to be patient when society puts way too much pressure on dating? Well, it's actually about the fucking ugliest truth of it. You know, you're taking it something that adults do that should be natural, and on women, you get married and men, I said, bitch and complain and eventually people see that and go, hey, this guy tells it like it is, wait a minute. Now you hear a lot about people saying how dating sucks. The truth of total of dating doesn't suck, people suck. And there's nothing you can do about it, except change the way you are as a person. You can't control what other people do. That's the sad truth of it. You can't let, uh, not just a, trolls are like, really bad dates. You can't let, let it get to, you know. You gotta run, can't, on a couple of shit that is in slots, so does, they're not allowed. Everyone can run out a couple of shit as a slot, so do I sooner or not? I kind of think. And… And… And… And suddenly shape or form, social media and dating have this parallel. And the one thing they have in common two things. They can be used for each other and people bitch about both of them sucking. You hear people bitch and say, oh my god, social media is the worst, or oh my god, dating is the worst. Ahh. Well, I'm going to tell you that social media and dating don't have to suck, that people make it sucky, that society makes it sucky. And if you think about this for a second it makes a lot of sense. We've created this image around social media with websites like Instagram where, you know, you see people showing off their Lamaginis and wands of cash. And in the dating scene, for example, we've created all this pressure where either you have to be pulled or opposite to the exact same and this argument, whether they both work or not, they work in parallels with each other. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. If you pull our opposites attract, do the people who are exactly the same attracts? It depends on the people and it depends on the situation. So both of those are a yes and no's just it. People talk about, well if you're getting bullied on social media, then just turn it off. Get off of Facebook, get off of YouTube, get off of whatever stupid site you're on. Sometimes it's not that easy because we still have bullies in the real world too, so you just have to load to deal with it. You know? And, um… You give them plenty of chance to back off before they step too far and then it's just like, okay… And that's just a kicker either. You could have someone bully you for months, but the second you overreact, you're the asshole. What? Okay, so what is supposed to do? You tell us to stop and they don't stop. What helps me do with the bullying on YouTube, especially on a side note, is knowing that I'm not the only person getting bullied on social media. And there are many people who say, why should we take your dating advice? You haven't had a girlfriend in almost three years. Because the patients to learn what people are talking about on the dating scene and knowing that the right one will come along eventually. It just takes the utmost of patience. And believe me, there's going to be times when it's frustrating. The bigger question, should we vent our frustrations on social media? The simplest answer is yes and no. Yes, because in a way, if you're just bitching about it on social media and it makes you feel better in some way, shape or form, but it's's therapeutic you have a safe space to bitch about it, but that depends on your definition of safe space because a lot of people feel like their freedom is the speech is being taken away. Well, to an extent, it really isn't. No. You're not allowed to say racist shit on YouTube, so… I don't think that's a restriction of freedom of speech. I think that's called common courtesy. We. I do appreciate you just tuning in to watch this year video. Because, uh, we can change the dating scene to where it seems to the stereotypes that are both gender-based and society-based and dating scene based in general that no one's gonna like that shit. It makes dating way more complicated than it needs to be. And then of course it leads right back to people bitching about the dating scene or bitching about social media or bitching about the economy. Someone's always bitching about something, that's just how it works man. But here's the thing in it. Yes, you should use social media to vent, but at the same time, know that you have to limit yourself on how far you vent. Because there are some people who might think you go too far with your views, or your opinions suck, and you think their opinions suck and it's just like I should be doing my YouTube monies tomorrow. Because honestly, it's been past the 21st and on top of that, YouTube, on top of that, YouTube, on top of that. I made it past the threshold. Yeah, but… typical in a sense that even though you practice different faiths everyone gets cracked for it. That's for this year video. Um, subscribe for more awesome contents.